People are real.
They have feelings and everything that is said and done to a human being in a day impact upon them for either the positive or the negative.
People carry those impacts with them and they begin to form the person they are.
People are not cattle to climb over on your way to the top, to use and abuse to make sure you stand in the spotlight. They are not disposable. Friending them when you don't care about what happens to them or that they are happy is disgusting. Playing at love and intimacy when it is just a game to you is even worse.
Everyone wants to be loved and to feel that they belong. Everyone likes to feel valued and recognized and people have a right to be supported to find that for themselves. We do not MAKE other people. We might be lucky enough to share a part of their journey. We might be lucky enough to even play the role of a teacher or a mentor for a small part of that journey but the wisest teacher recognizes that he, above all else, is a student and that he learns far more from the people he teaches than he ever imparts to them.